So the last couple of days I have been trying to listen to my body and mind, and to respect myself.
I have tried to be an intuitive eater several times in my life, so I'm not going to try again. Instead of giving myself that "intuitive eater" label and preaching about the benefits of "intuitive eating" and following steps, I'm going to instead just stop thinking about it.
I just don't care anymore. Not in a "giving up" kind of way, but in a "eating is a part of life but it's not the most important thing anymore" way. I am beginning to think that my disordered thoughts about food may actually be disappearing.
My attitude about food now is that it just is. I eat when I'm hungry and when I feel like eating. Usually these are the same things, but sometimes they are not. I try to avoid emotional eating, but I'm not obsessive about it.
I've been obsessively trying to avoid emotional eating for years now, and that has not resulted in the behavior ending.
My new theory is that if I stop caring so much about my eating habits, they will eventually end up in that intuitive place, and my weight will end up where it's supposed to be. I will still lose weight, because I won't be obsessed with food anymore, which will lead to less binges and more healthy decisions. It may not be a fast paced weight loss. I may lose 20 pounds a year or less.
But that's okay. I have about 70 pounds left to lose to reach my goal of weighing what I weighed before Mom died. I truly believe that I will reach that goal (if it remains my goal, that is). It may take a couple of more years, but I will reach it.
I also believe that along the way, I'm going to let go of my EDNOS completely, run a marathon, do a pull-up, go to law school, get married, and do anything else that I set my mind to.
I will have to figure out what to blog about, if not food and exercise. Maybe I will take a break from this blog. Maybe I will find a way to write more about my EDNOS recovery. Either way, please know that I'm doing very well right now when it comes to this area of my life.
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